you see, just goes to prove we are all different. humiliation is defintiely something that is about pressing the right buttons I agree serva

But as I as elsewhere, until you try it... The person I was playing with in this particular scenario really enjoyed adult/baby play - but becuase this was unexpected they found it had a surprising effect at teh time

I see this thread as about making you think of options, and not to necesarily go for the obvious, I certainly didn't intend you to take it as a "this will humiliate you". I'm sorry you don't find them very good idea, but maybe somebody else will.

I wasn't trying to say it was a bad idea - I actually think that the idea is very creative and pretty awesome! I was just chatting about what I like/don't. Sorry if I came across as critical, I just like talking

I am secretly planning on making myself some tasty kids sandwitches for my personal playtime

serva x

It is very much a personal thing.

I quite like the physical humiliation. Being told to go buy lingerie in my size, or butt plugs etc.
However just because I enjoy it, doesn't make it any less humiliating. In fact, the fact that i do enjoy it can make it worse. It deepens the feeling of embarrasment and makes me feel like I should be ashamed for getting off on carrying out whatever is asked of me.

On our first visit to Tension (hopefully in August) I have been told I will be wearing my maids outfit with heels and stockings etc. Now to most of you this will be perfectly acceptable and won't bat an eyelid, however to me, even though I enjoy wearing that stuff, it will be a first time in public wearing it and will be very humiliating.
As I said before, the fact that I enjoy it will probably make me feel more embarrased.

Each to their own

well iain a few weeks ago i was djing at a 80s rock night and i was wearing very tight lycra leggings and i felt embarrased all night .
but when i came to tension in a pink latex maids dress and clear heels i felt really comftable you will probaly feel the same after a few minutes